My wife has a lot of good ideas.
She’s been coaxing me for a long time to join her in creating Vision Boards for ourselves. The idea is that you take a piece of bristol board or heavy cardboard or something, and then slap images all over it that symbolize the things you want in life.
She first heard about it on Oprah, which was one of the reasons I resisted for so long — historically, I’ve not been a big fan of Oprah. Partly because a lot of the people on the show, and the theories they present, seem to have only the most tenuous of connections to reality (Dr. Phil, anyone?). But mostly because I don’t like seeing the big “O” stamped all over books that have been selected for her book club. I have to confess, though, that as my wife keeps watching the show and I keep seeing bits of it, my opinion is changing. I still wouldn’t call myself a fan, but I can grudgingly appreciate that Oprah does a lot of good and gives a great deal back to the planet.
The Vision Board, though, is a pretty good idea. Granted, if you read about it at the link above, you’ll be left with a very new-age-ish taste in your mouth. To me, the value of the board is that it makes you stop and think about what’s important to you, and then gives you a visual, persistent reminder of it daily. It gets you in a mindset where you’re thinking “Is what I’m doing helping me achieve my goal?”
The nice thing about a Vision Board is that it’s not about material acquisitions or escalation of status, necessarily. You may want to have some material things on there — a house, perhaps, or a car — but it’s also for capturing goals like a happy marriage or good health. Basically, anything that’s important that you want in your life. Which means that you don’t always have to be moving to be working towards your goals; you can take a rest and know that you’re contributing to your goal of being happy with your life, or taking time for yourself.
And now, before I risk turning into a complete Vision Board evangelist, I’ll sign off and go stare at my board for a bit and muse on the important things in life. Like a Home Server.
I kid, I kid.
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Beginning Blogging, revisited
February 24, 2008Following on the heels of yesterday’s post, the editors of The Lamppost sent me a link to another blog posting about getting started, which draws its inspiration from the fable of the tortoise and the hare.
I like what Kaila Colbin has to say. In some ways, I’m loathe to exercise the patience Kaila talks about, but the points in that post are very well taken. After all, virtually everything that’s worth having in life comes as the result of considerable effort. So if patience, time, commitment, and steady blogging are the hallmarks of a successful blog, I’m willing to puruse that.
I can certainly relate to the obsession over blog stats. I, too, check my stats several times a day, and am delighted with each new (non-spam) comment. After all, most of us write in order to be read.
There are still three things, in particular, that I struggle with as I work to build this blog. One is finding my place in the blogosphere. I’m writing this blog from the perspective of my experiences as a teleworker, though my thoughts and comments can wander far afield. The question I keep asking myself is: am I adding any value? Is this loosely focussed perspective on life something that people will enjoy returning to time and again? The hare in me wants to know – now – what people will want to read. The tortoise in me is trying to just focus on the pleasure of writing, and let things fall into place over time.
The second aspect of blogging that is a challenge for me is the linking aspect. I like being able to link to other’s posts, to reflect on what people have said, to encourage my readers to explore the web and the blogging universe. The challenge, for me, is finding blogs that I like to read. Simply jumping to random blogs doesn’t seem the best approach, but how then do we discover new bloggers, with whom we can engage in discussion? Certainly, there are a few that I visit regularly: Techdirt, engadget, Penny Arcade (warning – not suitable for young viewers), News.com, Tom’s Hardware, The Lamppost. But you may have sensed a theme in most of those; they’re very tech-focussed, and while I’m deeply interested in tech, that’s not what this blog is all about, nor do I want all my comments to be in that paraticular area. I’m curious to know, then, how other bloggers do it.
That, by the way, was a very thinly veiled request for comments.
The third challenge is time. Blogging is a hobby for me. It’s something I need to fit in at the end of my workday, in the midst of my responsibilities at work and my responsibilities at home. Inspiration is sometimes at a minimum, but the real challenge to posting reguarly is time, I find. The Gratitude Postings are a lifesaver, in one sense; they’re quick, they’re on a theme, and while they require some reflection, they save me from casting about for some topic on which to write.
I just try to keep in mind that I really started this blog to give myself a chance to write, and I need to make sure I don’t lose focus on that. After all, if we’re doing what we enjoy, sooner or later that delight is going to show through, in one form or another.