My wife has a lot of good ideas.
She’s been coaxing me for a long time to join her in creating Vision Boards for ourselves. The idea is that you take a piece of bristol board or heavy cardboard or something, and then slap images all over it that symbolize the things you want in life.
She first heard about it on Oprah, which was one of the reasons I resisted for so long — historically, I’ve not been a big fan of Oprah. Partly because a lot of the people on the show, and the theories they present, seem to have only the most tenuous of connections to reality (Dr. Phil, anyone?). But mostly because I don’t like seeing the big “O” stamped all over books that have been selected for her book club. I have to confess, though, that as my wife keeps watching the show and I keep seeing bits of it, my opinion is changing. I still wouldn’t call myself a fan, but I can grudgingly appreciate that Oprah does a lot of good and gives a great deal back to the planet.
The Vision Board, though, is a pretty good idea. Granted, if you read about it at the link above, you’ll be left with a very new-age-ish taste in your mouth. To me, the value of the board is that it makes you stop and think about what’s important to you, and then gives you a visual, persistent reminder of it daily. It gets you in a mindset where you’re thinking “Is what I’m doing helping me achieve my goal?”
The nice thing about a Vision Board is that it’s not about material acquisitions or escalation of status, necessarily. You may want to have some material things on there — a house, perhaps, or a car — but it’s also for capturing goals like a happy marriage or good health. Basically, anything that’s important that you want in your life. Which means that you don’t always have to be moving to be working towards your goals; you can take a rest and know that you’re contributing to your goal of being happy with your life, or taking time for yourself.
And now, before I risk turning into a complete Vision Board evangelist, I’ll sign off and go stare at my board for a bit and muse on the important things in life. Like a Home Server.
I kid, I kid.